You should have some stock, if you dont prepare any stock, you have to take this risk...thats fair!
Or you should find some Taiwanese or Hong Kong suppliers which they have factory in China, at least Taiwanese and Hong Kong people know better than you how to communicate with Chinese and they speak sme language.
its a dead end.
the reason why your drop shipping is because you dont want to have to stock all the styles , if you pay before then there is nothing holding them back from screwing you. what you should do is insist that you pay with secured shippment or after the item has already been shipped with a tracking number. also the first time they mess up dont go for any of there lies , change suppliers imeediatly. if they want you back as a customer be firm that you are only willing to pay after the goods are shipped.
hi
deal only with suppliers that accept payment thru escrow
escrow hold money owing to supplier for several days after delivery
awaiting conformation from buyer.after 3 days even no confimation payment is released,
which by then delivery is made and any queries by your customer is taken care of.
hope this helps
ps seems to me alibaba isent too concerned about buyers or else they would make it obligatory
like some other very good sites.