Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

Haha, I don't have a husband and I have no boyfriend, too.

But if I have one, he need do the cleaning and cooking but not me.

Maybe that's a big reason that I even don't have a boyfriend now?

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

It's simple, you can ask your husband to bear all the cost for cleaning...

Your husband is living in your own apartment ?  How can you kick him out ?

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

No , you're not over reacting. , only overpay cost for cleaning

you must prove you're not overbearing your husband

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

 

 

in fact.i hate somebody who does like this also.your act is correct.you have to give him a punishment.let him remember that lesson.i know that's one's habit.if he has one bad habit.it's difficult for him to change in a short time.so give him  time to change,if he can't ,leave him alone.let him clean his clothes .

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with

USD80 FOR A WEEK , TOO MUCH .

IN CHINA , MOST WIFIVE DO THE HOUSE WORKING .

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

 

Hi , I think u r brave for kicking  him out,hehe~~

I think your husband should respect ur cleaning, otherwise, let him or punish him finishing the cleaning

Just for reference.

That is a common problem, remember a few weeks ago there was a forum about staying together without getting married, so next time ( if you really get separated ) stay with someone for a while to see if you really can stay with him first before tying the knot. Previously I had a maid from Indonesia I only pay USD132 a month and she work for me 16 hrs X 365 days, ( this is not abuse, it is this way ) Now the agent fee had doubled and the salary also increased so we did not hire somebody new when her contract finished, but I have another maid coming on weekend for USD14.70 per 8 hrs, ( illegal immigrant ) So being used to have a full time maid me and my kids just throw our clothes and what ever thing everywhere, now that we only have a maid on weekends my wife have to do most of the cleaning and have been going mad every night scolding me and my kids, so we did not have any sex since my full time maid left, how can you make love with someone who is grumbling all the time? I gave my wife a solution, I ask her to give me a permission to buy a Vietnamese wife, we can buy a Vietnamese wife …..yes buy one for USD6000. So that on the day she’ll do the cleaning and I can use her at the night. There is no need to pay salary as you own her and she’s your wife. This seems to be a win-win situation but she have not agreed yet. So will you agree to this proposal ?

Quoting from [JJB]:

Am i a complainer or do I like to keep my house clean? I'd been asking myself this for a while. My husband eats and leaves the plate in the sofa, takes off his shoes, socks, clothes everything goes to the floor. Takes a shower, the towel on the floor of the living room. I have been tacking this for a year.

I have made a couple of changes. I hire a lady to come and clean our apt. I pay her every week $80.00 so she can clean and organize. That's on Weds, by Friday my apt. it's a mess.

I warn him that hiring someone to clean was going to be the last string that I will pull. Well 3 weeks a go we had the same talk again, well last night I kicked him out. I told him that I was tired of having a messy house. He cried and asked for a last chance. There are no more chances, In a week we are going to go our seperate ways. He came home talked to me, got his clothes out of the trashcan (the clothes that he leaves on the floor, I trow it to the trash)he promised this and that and taht this will be the last time.

I might be handling things immature, but the talking, the teamwork, the cleaning lady, the trowing his clothes to the trash is not working.

Is it that I'm over reacting or do women just put up with it?

 

Hearing your  story ,it  is very interesting ! But i must  say thanks  to you ! Do you want  to  know  why ? 

i  will  find  a  boyfriend  that he can do everything with me , we are clean the  house  together !

Yes, I'm on your back. I'm a clean man,If you like, give your husband to me and I can teach him a lesson.

 

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