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Is it ok, living with someone without get marry?
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lelele
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15 Sep 2008 18:56
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Are you looking for someone to give you permission?
22 Sep 2008 12:01
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Quoting from [lelele]:

i just wanna to ask ...is it ok,live together without get marry? i just want to know your views regarding this topic,i personally feel that its ok.so pls tell me your view, i m waiting your response, i think after 50 years most pepole will live together without getting marry, how much you think, is it possible or not?



hello , its a very interesting topic ,but  I think it`s not easy to say possible or not ,because its up to you ,if its worth for you to do such ,you can do ,or you dont .

I know most of the girl will confuse meet such problem ,they hesitate if should can live or not ,if live togther, how can do if man go away , if not live togther ,maybe not happy .

I am so lucky  , I meet a good boyfriend ,but I have no idea to live with him, we should have our own space. [em10]

22 Sep 2008 19:56
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i think it works, in my opinoin, i think to get a marrage certificate is not so important , the point  is whether you love each or not , and , the other point is , can you bear others' discussion ?

22 Sep 2008 23:53
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Quoting from [lelele]:

i just wanna to ask ...is it ok,live together without get marry? i just want to know your views regarding this topic,i personally feel that its ok.so pls tell me your view, i m waiting your response, i think after 50 years most pepole will live together without getting marry, how much you think, is it possible or not?


23 Sep 2008 01:05
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it is ok if it's real love
23 Sep 2008 01:07
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Quoting from [wanglu]:




it is ok if it's real love




If it's true love - why not marry with him? [em9]
23 Sep 2008 08:57
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beautiful answer


Quoting from [Street Smart]:

Quoting from [lelele]:

i just wanna to ask ...is it ok,live together without get marry? i just want to know your views regarding this topic,i personally feel that its ok.so pls tell me your view, i m waiting your response, i think after 50 years most pepole will live together without getting marry, how much you think, is it possible or not?




Morally it is evil, and socially it is like having sex without the responsibility.



God made man and woman to mate, like the animals and insects, the birds and the bees, but people are the ones that perverse the entire plan of nature. Why live together? Don't tell me that both of you are good friends only, not having sex?



At the end of the day, who can you say your house-mate is? Your husband? Maybe you do not want to have children, that is fine, but why living together? The Chinese says: "When you put two cups in a pail of water, floating, they tend to knock each other." So, living together, like what the Western countries are doing, in Great Britain for example there are more and more single mothers. But their social fabric is different from the Asian culture, their Governments give them money, and more money if they are single parent. If they are married, there is a man to take care of them, the Welfare pay will be less. But there is no such welfarism in China or even here, so why be the loser?



In all cases, the woman is always the loser. If by accident, she gets pregnant, she has to bear the child for 9 months, become a social stigma, talk-of-the-town, and a disgrace to her parents and relatives. She does not get any help from anyone outside, and cannot work, due to her pregnancy. What can she do if the man just takes off after finding out she is bearing his child? The guy had his fun, and the girl also had her's but who got the bug?



Marriage is not a matter of convenience, or any how relationship, it is a life time committment to each other. I will not allow my daughter to live with another man, no matter what he is, a gentleman or a doctor, or lawyer. If they want, they must get married.



Street





23 Sep 2008 22:02
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Depends on your and your partners cultural background and religion.

In most western countries it is now seen as perfectly acceptable if not normal. Marriage is starting to seem strange.

In African and Asian cultures the more traditional view still holds. Marriage is important and indeed sacred.

The key question is how will it affect your children.

24 Sep 2008 13:17
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Quoting from [lelele]:

i just wanna to ask ...is it ok,live together without get marry? i just want to know your views regarding this topic,i personally feel that its ok.so pls tell me your view, i m waiting your response, i think after 50 years most pepole will live together without getting marry, how much you think, is it possible or not?



It is ok.. to ask such question and to seek for a comment/view from an Individual.

If you are of an Assertive Nature, You don't even have to care (to ask)!! Because every individual is The king or queen of his/her kingdom, and can take any decision as per his/her wish, provided he or she must be ready to Face the Consequences of the action.

I do agree with you!

24 Sep 2008 14:43
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Quoting from [lelele]:

i just wanna to ask ...is it ok,live together without get marry? i just want to know your views regarding this topic,i personally feel that its ok.so pls tell me your view, i m waiting your response, i think after 50 years most pepole will live together without getting marry, how much you think, is it possible or not?


26 Sep 2008 02:08
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