Quoting from [rstoddart]:Such a complicated question.
A wise answer is NO.
Many WOMAN, (not girl) wait for a perfect man, or a romantic prince charming to find them. They have certain qualifications or expectations of their hero!
When the prince does not come to their door, to carry them off. (Say, isn’t that called kidnapping, and treated harshly by the local authorities..
) They wonder what is keeping him
Marriage is indeed, a serious adventure. A wise man told me that that it is a Journey, and that the successful at it will marry knowing that the road is bumpy and build their marriage on a firm foundation as you would build a sturdy house.
People of many cultures have different priorities to consider.
Some have said that to find a mate, they should list their wants or desires in a perfect mate. Toss the list and start a realistic list. Such as: Honorable, Considerate, respectful, responsible, and humble. (both men and women.)
Large organized religions teach and preach good qualities. Perhaps that would be a good place to find a mate, such organizations have social events for single people to have an excuse to meet one another. It worked for me and my wife. We both joined the same church, and we searched online for others looking for a mate. I posted the ad and she found me. This is a good approach for the shy or introverted.
A perfect man may be impossible to find, but you would be happy with a good man.
A wealthy marriage is one that is rich in listening, and understanding.
Good Suggestion !! I like it ...
Quoting from [julia 2]:Quoting from [lelele]:
Recently most of my friends get married. My best friends are all married, and some of them even have babies. Now I am still single. People around me say to me: " You must find someone to love or get on with, girls will be difficult to search BF after 25 years old." I am 25 years old now, but I don't think I am old enough to get married. In my opinion, marriage is a serious topic. We must take serious of it. Think: you have to live with someone for the rest of your life. We can't marry for it is time to marry; we have to marry for we find the proper one to marry.What's your opinion?
I can not agree you more.
yes ,i agree with you!
Quoting from [lelele]:
Recently most of my friends get married. My best friends are all married, and some of them even have babies. Now I am still single. People around me say to me: " You must find someone to love or get on with, girls will be difficult to search BF after 25 years old." I am 25 years old now, but I don't think I am old enough to get married. In my opinion, marriage is a serious topic. We must take serious of it. Think: you have to live with someone for the rest of your life. We can't marry for it is time to marry; we have to marry for we find the proper one to marry.What's your opinion?
Marriage doesnot have the certain relation with age. If we have not met our Mr Right, how can we marry? It may be sth called Destiny. We could always fall in love but would just marry once generally. None of us like divorce, so we have to be serious and patient!
Bless for all of us to find the most suitable one earlier!
Quoting from [rstoddart]:Such a complicated question.
A wise answer is NO.
Many WOMAN, (not girl) wait for a perfect man, or a romantic prince charming to find them. They have certain qualifications or expectations of their hero!
When the prince does not come to their door, to carry them off. (Say, isn’t that called kidnapping, and treated harshly by the local authorities..
Marriage is indeed, a serious adventure. A wise man told me that that it is a Journey, and that the successful at it will marry knowing that the road is bumpy and build their marriage on a firm foundation as you would build a sturdy house.
People of many cultures have different priorities to consider.
Some have said that to find a mate, they should list their wants or desires in a perfect mate. Toss the list and start a realistic list. Such as: Honorable, Considerate, respectful, responsible, and humble. (both men and women.)
Large organized religions teach and preach good qualities. Perhaps that would be a good place to find a mate, such organizations have social events for single people to have an excuse to meet one another. It worked for me and my wife. We both joined the same church, and we searched online for others looking for a mate. I posted the ad and she found me. This is a good approach for the shy or introverted.
A perfect man may be impossible to find, but you would be happy with a good man.
GOOD TOPIC!GOOD IDEA!GOOD SUGGESTION!
Quoting from [Jana2008]:Quoting from [lelele]:
Recently most of my friends get married. My best friends are all married, and some of them even have babies. Now I am still single. People around me say to me: " You must find someone to love or get on with, girls will be difficult to search BF after 25 years old." I am 25 years old now, but I don't think I am old enough to get married. In my opinion, marriage is a serious topic. We must take serious of it. Think: you have to live with someone for the rest of your life. We can't marry for it is time to marry; we have to marry for we find the proper one to marry.What's your opinion?
I appreciate your view~I do remember one of my classmate says:Do not marry the one you can live with, do marry the one you can not live without!
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would you like to marry the man who is care about you very much, but he is not handsome and not have enough money to support you? What is your opinion?
I also 25years old, i alway don't think i am very old. i think woman must not marry too early, or you will became older fast, your skin and you figure will not be in good condition.
Hi,
Its on you how you take yourt life. Marriege and love can happen anytime. There is no age limit for it and best part is, nothing is in your hand, everything thing is pre-planned by someone sitting within you............................Of-course "GOD".
Soh, dont bother, live life kingsize and start find your mate now on. There is no late for this..
Bye..
Quoting from [julia 2]:Quoting from [lelele]:
Recently most of my friends get married. My best friends are all married, and some of them even have babies. Now I am still single. People around me say to me: " You must find someone to love or get on with, girls will be difficult to search BF after 25 years old." I am 25 years old now, but I don't think I am old enough to get married. In my opinion, marriage is a serious topic. We must take serious of it. Think: you have to live with someone for the rest of your life. We can't marry for it is time to marry; we have to marry for we find the proper one to marry.What's your opinion?
I can not agree you more.
IS INCREDIBLE HOW ORIENT AND EUROPE ARE DIFFERENT...
we usually merry at 35 years...
well, i have the same experience . i'm 23 years old, but i'm still signgle now and i don't feel any uncomfortble, quite the contrary , i feel very happy. sometimes, BFor husband means trouble.![[em17]](http://img.alibaba.com/images/eng/style/icon/emoticons_shake_hands.gif)
One day when you reach 30, you will say 25 is very young. When you are 40, you will say that 30 is young. Most of us think that at our current age, we are old. As a matter of fact, we are never old as long as we are young in our hearts.
The key is to admit that "the current you" is who you are and should not be bound by your age and driven to settle on a BF or GF in fear of not having a partner while the others have already got theirs. Be happy and have confidence on yourself, then you look energetic and will attract the others to you, then you can see who are the one for you.
Quoting from [rstoddart]:Such a complicated question.
A wise answer is NO.
Many WOMAN, (not girl) wait for a perfect man, or a romantic prince charming to find them. They have certain qualifications or expectations of their hero!
When the prince does not come to their door, to carry them off. (Say, isn’t that called kidnapping, and treated harshly by the local authorities..
Marriage is indeed, a serious adventure. A wise man told me that that it is a Journey, and that the successful at it will marry knowing that the road is bumpy and build their marriage on a firm foundation as you would build a sturdy house.
People of many cultures have different priorities to consider.
Some have said that to find a mate, they should list their wants or desires in a perfect mate. Toss the list and start a realistic list. Such as: Honorable, Considerate, respectful, responsible, and humble. (both men and women.)
Large organized religions teach and preach good qualities. Perhaps that would be a good place to find a mate, such organizations have social events for single people to have an excuse to meet one another. It worked for me and my wife. We both joined the same church, and we searched online for others looking for a mate. I posted the ad and she found me. This is a good approach for the shy or introverted.
A perfect man may be impossible to find, but you would be happy with a good man.
maybe