time flying away...seems seldom classmates to keep contact so frequently as before...every one have individual life...except for some special thing...

Laowang is the oldest brother for my campus dorm...and I can not cry out to him although he called me nearly 1:00 AM this morning...I listen to his story but seems difficult to answer his question...

he worked in big shanghai, as a common white collar...and so fortunated that he meet a native girl 3 years ago...they two are deeply attached to each other...laowang think it's the best gift for God...and she is his reson to stay in this stranger and heavy pressure city, when he faced for some difficult...

think about laowang's age, is nearly 30 years old...Laowang make a big decision, bought a diamond finger ring (and bought a platina one for himself)...and he choosed a romantic room for a French restaurant...to show his lovemaking...in the special mother's day, and claim that he will make her a happy bride , mother...

I nearly affected for that thing...but the answer make me crazy, just like Laowang...

that girl give him a classical and memorable sentence:

"marry me? please prepare for a house first...." " I love you, so I dont ask for a car at that time"...she left without taking that expensive " diamond" finger ring...

I keep silent...I know a house is only a dream for Laowang...and I am not a millionaire...I can not help him till now...

dear friends, who can help laowang to resolve the difficulty...and if you meet the same thing as Lao wang?

roaring for house price...

please comment, thanks... 

Your friend has to learn how to distinguish between a woman who looks for a man and another who looks for a checkbook...

Quoting from [germex]:

Your friend has to learn how to distinguish between a woman who looks for a man and another who looks for a checkbook...

yes I think , she's looking for a checkbook ....not true love

When I married w/ my wife, I have nothing. 

 

 

After two divorces I learned my lesson. Now all the women I meet "know" that I am poor. Probably that's part of the reason I haven't married again...

Quoting from [jane_b]:

time flying away...seems seldom classmates to keep contact so frequently as before...every one have individual life...except for some special thing...

Laowang is the oldest brother for my campus dorm...and I can not cry out to him although he called me nearly 1:00 AM this morning...I listen to his story but seems difficult to answer his question...

he worked in big shanghai, as a common white collar...and so fortunated that he meet a native girl 3 years ago...they two are deeply attached to each other...laowang think it's the best gift for God...and she is his reson to stay in this stranger and heavy pressure city, when he faced for some difficult...

think about laowang's age, is nearly 30 years old...Laowang make a big decision, bought a diamond finger ring (and bought a platina one for himself)...and he choosed a romantic room for a French restaurant...to show his lovemaking...in the special mother's day, and claim that he will make her a happy bride , mother...

I nearly affected for that thing...but the answer make me crazy, just like Laowang...

that girl give him a classical and memorable sentence:

"marry me? please prepare for a house first...." " I love you, so I dont ask for a car at that time"...she left without taking that expensive " diamond" finger ring...

I keep silent...I know a house is only a dream for Laowang...and I am not a millionaire...I can not help him till now...

dear friends, who can help laowang to resolve the difficulty...and if you meet the same thing as Lao wang?

roaring for house price...

please comment, thanks... 

I think it's nothing. If you can not offer her the life which she pursues, pls leave her. Because she is not fit for you. leave! leave! leave!

Hey, there are a lot beautiful and good girls, why just hang on one tree?!

And I think that girl is fell in love with a house but not laowang, I'm surly!!

Quoting from [jane_b]:

time flying away...seems seldom classmates to keep contact so frequently as before...every one have individual life...except for some special thing...

Laowang is the oldest brother for my campus dorm...and I can not cry out to him although he called me nearly 1:00 AM this morning...I listen to his story but seems difficult to answer his question...

he worked in big shanghai, as a common white collar...and so fortunated that he meet a native girl 3 years ago...they two are deeply attached to each other...laowang think it's the best gift for God...and she is his reson to stay in this stranger and heavy pressure city, when he faced for some difficult...

think about laowang's age, is nearly 30 years old...Laowang make a big decision, bought a diamond finger ring (and bought a platina one for himself)...and he choosed a romantic room for a French restaurant...to show his lovemaking...in the special mother's day, and claim that he will make her a happy bride , mother...

I nearly affected for that thing...but the answer make me crazy, just like Laowang...

that girl give him a classical and memorable sentence:

"marry me? please prepare for a house first...." " I love you, so I dont ask for a car at that time"...she left without taking that expensive " diamond" finger ring...

I keep silent...I know a house is only a dream for Laowang...and I am not a millionaire...I can not help him till now...

dear friends, who can help laowang to resolve the difficulty...and if you meet the same thing as Lao wang?

roaring for house price...

please comment, thanks... 

So many same stories among the yong adult.

You can advice your brother laowang to let her know  his is still very young, and has potential power to buy a house for her in few years.

A house is not only the responsibility of a men, but also a girl.

Since they have been getting together for three years, so she knows him clearly that now he has ability to buy a house or not. why let a men feel so depression ?

if she don't want to marry him without a house in shanghai, just leave her for a while, let her think it alone whether the house is important or the man who loves her so much more important in her heart.

The rich may become the poor, who knows?

 

Quoting from [Lisazhang]:

Quoting from [jane_b]:

time flying away...seems seldom classmates to keep contact so frequently as before...every one have individual life...except for some special thing...

Laowang is the oldest brother for my campus dorm...and I can not cry out to him although he called me nearly 1:00 AM this morning...I listen to his story but seems difficult to answer his question...

he worked in big shanghai, as a common white collar...and so fortunated that he meet a native girl 3 years ago...they two are deeply attached to each other...laowang think it's the best gift for God...and she is his reson to stay in this stranger and heavy pressure city, when he faced for some difficult...

think about laowang's age, is nearly 30 years old...Laowang make a big decision, bought a diamond finger ring (and bought a platina one for himself)...and he choosed a romantic room for a French restaurant...to show his lovemaking...in the special mother's day, and claim that he will make her a happy bride , mother...

I nearly affected for that thing...but the answer make me crazy, just like Laowang...

that girl give him a classical and memorable sentence:

"marry me? please prepare for a house first...." " I love you, so I dont ask for a car at that time"...she left without taking that expensive " diamond" finger ring...

I keep silent...I know a house is only a dream for Laowang...and I am not a millionaire...I can not help him till now...

dear friends, who can help laowang to resolve the difficulty...and if you meet the same thing as Lao wang?

roaring for house price...

please comment, thanks... 

So many same stories among the yong adult.

You can advice your brother laowang to let her know  his is still very young, and has potential power to buy a house for her in few years.

A house is not only the responsibility of a men, but also a girl.

Since they have been getting together for three years, so she knows him clearly that now he has ability to buy a house or not. why let a men feel so depression ?

if she don't want to marry him without a house in shanghai, just leave her for a while, let her think it alone whether the house is important or the man who loves her so much more important in her heart.

The rich may become the poor, who knows?

 

love .....  do you think there are real love ? sometimes the love is so complexed .

Quoting from [jane_b]:

Hi Jane_b,

Sad to hear your brother's news.

If the girl  loves Laowang deep, why  not solve the problem together?On the one hand , she should know whether Laowang could afford a house or not since thery have been loving for 3 years.She should  encourage him not just left with her  realistic  requirement. And Laowang is young at his age . On the other hand, when they really get married, the house belongs to both of  them ,the girl should share the responsibility of the house rather than just   let Laowang upset .

Good luck to Laowang!

 

Quoting from [jane_b]:

time flying away...seems seldom classmates to keep contact so frequently as before...every one have individual life...except for some special thing...

Laowang is the oldest brother for my campus dorm...and I can not cry out to him although he called me nearly 1:00 AM this morning...I listen to his story but seems difficult to answer his question...

he worked in big shanghai, as a common white collar...and so fortunated that he meet a native girl 3 years ago...they two are deeply attached to each other...laowang think it's the best gift for God...and she is his reson to stay in this stranger and heavy pressure city, when he faced for some difficult...

think about laowang's age, is nearly 30 years old...Laowang make a big decision, bought a diamond finger ring (and bought a platina one for himself)...and he choosed a romantic room for a French restaurant...to show his lovemaking...in the special mother's day, and claim that he will make her a happy bride , mother...

I nearly affected for that thing...but the answer make me crazy, just like Laowang...

that girl give him a classical and memorable sentence:

"marry me? please prepare for a house first...." " I love you, so I dont ask for a car at that time"...she left without taking that expensive " diamond" finger ring...

I keep silent...I know a house is only a dream for Laowang...and I am not a millionaire...I can not help him till now...

dear friends, who can help laowang to resolve the difficulty...and if you meet the same thing as Lao wang?

roaring for house price...

please comment, thanks... 

Bad news. The best method is to work hard then let her know your friend is a potential blue stock. She will regret if she miss him. Face the truth, calm down, think of the methods to solve the problem. She is a realistic girl, don't be sad just do some actions.