Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your caresorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
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It's no surprise you feel as you do, even somewhat depressed. What brought this on? A sedentary job in front of a computer for long hours, being new and knowing no one, no fun, no money and no girl. I also suspect that, as a recent student, your diet is not the best.
First of all, it is a blessing that all this is so, because you have plenty of time to organize your life as an adult. You want to be ready for the future.
Exercise every day. Walking for 45 minutes is enough, but swimming, jogging or going to a gym work, too. Learn about diet, what the best foods are, and how to arrange your diet economically. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. It doesn't matter if you sleep, just that you develop good sleeping habits, in a dark room. If it is noisy, get earplugs.
Sing your songs anyway. Some people will think you're crazy, but young women will think you're cute. I used to sing when I walked around the hospital. My nickname was "the singing surgeon" But everyone knew who I was. It was a definite mood lifer.
As far as work, ask your colleagues for advice about work, but never discuss your private life with them. As my Mom says, "Don't lie. But don't spill your guts, either. The nice guys at work will help you. You'll also learn who the bad guys are this way. Look for books about selling. Lean as much as you can. Things you learn will be helpful anywhere you go.
Why are you working such long hours? Can you do anything about that?
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
I'm also a green,graduated this year,but i dont agree with your view.I beleive that you can do it well,coz you ,including all of the young,are so young,we have time and energy.I insist that i can get my first order one day ,never care about the pains.Forturenitly,it comes true.so ,to be yourself never give up!
I am in the same situation, Everyday I have to do the same things too. Work ,no fun.But you should know the that : if you want to do the things you like , you should do the things you don't like first. Just do not give up.Most people live like you and they do try to change this situation.One day we can get the happiness.
I am in the same situation, Everyday I have to do the same things too. Work ,no fun.But you should know the that : if you want to do the things you like , you should do the things you don't like first. Just do not give up.Most people live like you and they do try to change this situation.One day we can get the happiness.
Quoting from [doccarrie]:Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your caresorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
IIt's no surprise you feel as you do, even somewhat depressed. What brought this on? A sedentary job in front of a computer for long hours, being new and knowing no one, no fun, no money and no girl. I also suspect that, as a recent student, your diet is not the best.
First of all, it is a blessing that all this is so, because you have plenty of time to organize your life as an adult. You want to be ready for the future.
Exercise every day. Walking for 45 minutes is enough, but swimming, jogging or going to a gym work, too. Learn about diet, what the best foods are, and how to arrange your diet economically. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. It doesn't matter if you sleep, just that you develop good sleeping habits, in a dark room. If it is noisy, get earplugs.
Sing your songs anyway. Some people will think you're crazy, but young women will think you're cute. I used to sing when I walked around the hospital. My nickname was "the singing surgeon" But everyone knew who I was. It was a definite mood lifer.
As far as work, ask your colleagues for advice about work, but never discuss your private life with them. As my Mom says, "Don't lie. But don't spill your guts, either. The nice guys at work will help you. You'll also learn who the bad guys are this way. Look for books about selling. Lean as much as you can. Things you learn will be helpful anywhere you go.
Why are you working such long hours? Can you do anything about that?
Ya ,i think your life is wonderful,""the singing surgeon" ,like me , i am also a optimistical girl, also when i charge the international business last year, only myself , but i learned much knowleged, sometimes, i will Travel,i think it freedom,so which life style deponds on your choice.
Face to your life, the road is under.......
Quoting from [ganem]:if you really hate your job, why don't you quit and find another one. You are so young!
i agree with you .why not quit your job. you can change your environment
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
I want to give you this advise:
From what comes success?
A stupid question or a question without an answer.
Well if I would tell you, I have the answer then I must have always success- right?
So what can I say, I can say success CAN come if some preconditions are fulfilled but even they are fulfilled there is no guarantee that success comes.
Sort of injustice- no this is life.
Is life injustice?
No, life is always bringing the unexpected, if life would only bring the expected, would it be success?
Think it over?
Is it success if only the expected things will happen:
OK you work and get order, you work more and get more order....???
Would this be a success?
No not at all?
Why?
I tell you why because success menas , it makes you happy.
How can it make you happy if only the expected things do happen?
This would be BORING!!!!
Another example: you try a thing hard, a computer game, you are sitting there hours per hours to get to the next level.
Imagine you would get level by level so easy, what would you say, what boring game- am I right or not?
Life is challenge!!!!
The challenge to deal with the unexpected and to adapt to the unexpected situations, to search ways out and to fight to get out.
What would be worse if you lose, if you lose this worse but if you do not win, you are on the way to win.
But so long you move to change and to adapt to the unexpected so long you are on the right way, but you are on the total wrong way if you see in this the only sense of life which can make you happy or unhappy.
Life is more then success and loss, life is the unexpected , wait and see but do not only wait what happen next!!!! Good Luck!
B/RGDS.
Nordin
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
I'm sorry to hear that,you're so sad.my situation is the same with you.I'm in Zhejiang too!
But,I have great confidence to do every thing.Yet,not everting has it deserved result,no pains ,no gains.why don't you turn you mind?
It's my pleasure to help you,you can contract me by E-mail (Irice1030@hotmail.com)or QQ.(61937223).I work in Hangzhou,Zhejiang.
your sincerely
Irene
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
Embrace the curse of being born, consider you were lucky you were born normally, not invalid.