Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?

 

I'm sorry to hear that .I feel sad too. Because i'm in the same situation as you.The thing i wanna to do most is to sleep in a slience room! When can i go out of this situation! Ireally miss my friends and also my parents .But i can't tell them about this .Because they will worried about me!

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

Quoting from [beginning of dream]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION LIES BETWEN FEW THINGS

1) TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST TOUGH PEOPLE DO

CHOOSE WHICH ONE ARE YOU.

2) THERE ARE THREE TYPES OF PEOPLE IN THIS BUSINESS

a- NEG FERRETS ( one who says this cannot be done)

b- PESSIMIST - WATCHERS( what has just hapen- they dont know that its done) and they are shocked

c- PEOPLE WHO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.

YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE WHICH ONE ARE YOU.

AND THIRD

YOU HAVE TO HAVE A GOAL OR A DEADLINE TO THINGS YOU DO

SO THAT PEOPLE CAN RESPOND AND WORK ON IT WITH AN IMMEDIATE EFFECT KNOWING THAT THEY HAVE DEADLINES.

AND HAVING A GOAL WILL MAKE YOU WORK FOR SOMETHING , IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE MONEY ORIENTED. IT CAN BE AS SIMPLE AS TAKING YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO MOVIES. BUT AS LONG AS YOU ACHIEVE IT YOU SHALL FEEL POSETIVE .

 

ALL WORK AND NO TIME  TO PLAY MAKES JACK A DULL BOY

AND THAT RESEMBLES YOUR ATTITUDE RIGHT NOW.

FOLLOW THESETHING AND LET US ALL KNOW IF IT HELPS

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Quoting from [sunnymin]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?

Well,i feel the same , i just stay here for more than two months . No orders , no friends.

You d better try to search the root of the problem  in  your case.  What  is  actually your ultimate purpose. if you put sales and orders the benchmark of your "success", then you are holding the wrong mental map in your life travel. No matter how strong and powerful the "man made" encouragement and motivation injected to your mood, no matter how hard you change your attitude toward your current situation, no matter how fast you accelerate your speed to your goal, you are wasting and losing lots of energy. Yes you will arrive faster.. but faster at the wrong place.


why dont you spend sometime to reconsider your goal. This is the clue to the right goal worthy to consider, God has created man (you are not an axception) to have a fellowship with God. there is a vacuum in our heart that can NEVER be filled with gold and silver. I can understand your situation cause I ever be close to that point of loneliness many years ago, but I am so fortunate to consider the right map that was hidden somewhere next to the gold and silver.


Right now i am blessed more than I expected. "Seek first the kingdom of God and His rightiousness, and all these will be added to you as well." The whole world is in His hand how much more sales and orders. Unless you hold this clue, when you work hard, you double your speed, you will end up in losing side (sooner or late.. Believe me! this message is so expensive no money may purchase). The key to the precious map is try to know HIM seriously, you will never be the same.


Wish you all the best,  Good luck.



                                    

Quoting from [lrcwpp]:

Quoting from [ganem]:

if you really hate your job, why don't you quit and find another one. You are so young!

He doesn't hate his job.

He just can't be seasoned with his status quo.

What he should do now is adjusting his mood!

Isn't it?

Hi dear.dont stress take it easy.When things go bad,have faith.The wheel turns and you will have your day.As long as you are marketing a product that has demand,then you must not fear.....SMILE AND HAVE A NICE DAY

Hi,i really don't think your problem is big.Many new graduates have the same feeling as yours.

That is just your bad feeling,i faced much worse condition than you before but i worked it out.

I am also from China,i graduated from Ningbo University and came to Pakistan for work.It is a totally different place from China:people,culture,food,language,and so on.What is more worse,the bomb blasts can happen any minute and any place when i first came here.

Why you said you can't understand their language and just hear their talk and feel lonely?At least they are not foreigners.Though i know Zhejiang language is a little difficult ,they can still talk to you In Mandarin .

No friends?Just make new ones.

No orders?You just work for so short time,it is very normal that no business.You need a lot of patience and luck to make it.

Why not get one day off and relax the whole day,and then live the new life with good and peaceful mood?

Life is not so hard,at least your condition if fine.

Be strong!Challenge yourself.

Quoting from [beginning of dream]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up  my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?

never give up..try to join your colleagues' world..and talk with them,and try to make more friends in a strange place.

Regards to your job,no one can help you....Be patient,and work hard...orders will come soon.Don't give up,it is quite normal not to any orders in 3-6 months at the beginning....

dear friend its true, what you passing through is happening to me too, i'm much older than you, but keep up the good spirit, like you said God can always help, just pray to him, you i would like to come to chine to do business, i made a very lovely friend there in china and she is just crazzy for me to come over, i hope one day that can happen, and if you still there maybe we meet. tai tian. skype: sunpac2

Quoting from [yangxue860613]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?

 

I'm sorry to hear that .I feel sad too. Because i'm in the same situation as you.The thing i wanna to do most is to sleep in a slience room! When can i go out of this situation! Ireally miss my friends and also my parents .But i can't tell them about this .Because they will worried about me

Hang on, try to make the best out of you situation, skype me if possible sunpac2

Quoting from [dedirecteur]:

Quoting from [yangxue860613]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?

 

I'm sorry to hear that .I feel sad too. Because i'm in the same situation as you.The thing i wanna to do most is to sleep in a slience room! When can i go out of this situation! Ireally miss my friends and also my parents .But i can't tell them about this .Because they will worried about me

Hang on, try to make the best out of you situation, skype me if possible sunpac2

Hi,friend. You are a lucky man,university graduate,a job,though no orders,language problem,etc.I am sure you have seen people in china you wouldn't want to be in their shoes??? No????? You life has just begun at 22. Be cool man.  Know what you want and work towards it. Just be COOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.PROMISE???????? CHEERS!!!!!

 

Get one of those sleep machines that has sounds on it. It really helps! they cost about $40 USD. Try eBay.

Eat well and take vitamins especially ginseng for energy. Drink lots of water.

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