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yuanda2008china
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This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?



30 Jul 2008 03:36
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Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

Quoting from [richard_inecan]:



LEARN TO GROW UP AND BE A MAN.

OK,I AM FIGHTING AS A MAN ALREADY NOW!

COME ON,LET'S  DO OUR JOB WELL TOGETHER![em3]


come  on babytake  care  of  youself  

    www.9ico.com

12 Aug 2008 00:53
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Quoting from [lanzifly]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

Quoting from [richard_inecan]:




LEARN TO GROW UP AND BE A MAN.

OK,I AM FIGHTING AS A MAN ALREADY NOW!

COME ON,LET'S  DO OUR JOB WELL TOGETHER![em3]


come  on babytake  care  of  youself  

       www.9ico.com


12 Aug 2008 00:54
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[em10]Quoting from [lanzifly]:

Quoting from [lanzifly]:

Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

Quoting from [richard_inecan]:





LEARN TO GROW UP AND BE A MAN.

OK,I AM FIGHTING AS A MAN ALREADY NOW!

COME ON,LET'S  DO OUR JOB WELL TOGETHER![em3]


come  on babytake  care  of  youself  

       www.9ico.com




I think making friends is the best way to release your bad mood andsituation.From internet or your office,you'd better have good freinds to enjoy your hapiness and sadness.

 

Anyway,Good luck.A za a za fighting.......!!![em14]

12 Aug 2008 03:10
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Being a boss is 100 x more frustrating than being an employee.

12 Aug 2008 09:03
Post 6 of 92
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?



And where are you come from once again? china? and what language you didnt understand? china/english? or maybe other language? you seems good in english, and as far as i know, mostly the members here talk in english aren't they?


Well, I got problem too here.


Same as you, I have same situation, I mean for the no order things. I'm a Trustpass member for almost 1 year now, and I have no serious order, only 2 new order until now since i became a Trustpass member, which one of them turn to be a fraud who only paid me half from their order to me (lucky I only lost USD 125). Its not like i never try to advertise the company products here. But still, no good result.


I think alibaba should change their system, like ebay i mean, give buyer chance to give point to a trusted seller, that way, other buyer will be more confident to make an order. But of course they have to track every seller and see if they really got the point from the buyer who buy  stuff from them (which of course its not that simple, you have to track either buyer who give points is fake or not, and checking view other things just to make sure the points are valid)

Because from what I have learned from being a paid member in alibaba (A Trustpass member which my company have paid USD 500 for), is not far different from being a free member. The only thing different is you got "verified status". Thats all. And buyer will not buy into "verified status" and they still have doubt.


I feel its very hard for a small and medium scale company here to sell their stuff. Because only known one and big company here will get order. Also the one who got friends overseas, who can convince that the company are really really valid.


Well thats only my opinion, I dont know how bout the rest of you all.


And as for you yuanda2008china, no need to feel sad, just try to enjoy your work and try harder. And if you still got no order, maybe its not your luck? and maybe its time for you to try another job? who knows? The world is too much fun for you to feel sad. So cheer up man.


Good luck! [em1]

13 Aug 2008 00:48
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Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?



it is the so -called society, it is the so-called heaven hangzhou.

i wish to live in a little wooden housre and have friends around
14 Aug 2008 00:42
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Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?


 




well, quit the job and come back to your life
14 Aug 2008 19:40
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Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?


 



Set a goal, work to achieve it. China is good place to make money, however you have to be balder and better in order to win. Many people are just working, but they are not structural doing so, that gives everybody a feeling of despair.

 

 

1. Set your goals.

2. Think of why anyone should buy from you.

3. Try to be decent, many companies fail here.

4. Try to be accurate, whenever I purchase stuff I make sure I do that with a company that cares and know what they are doing, if not-bye bye. Bad sign could be a person starting a sentence with a small letter and don’t know that it should be a capital letter. That gives me a signal of trouble.

5. Don’t give up.

6. You miss your girlfriend, many people in your age does not even have a girlfriend.

7. Think positive, even if you fail you will survive and get another chance. Many people have failed the first time.

8. Money will come if you are decent and caring and supply what people are looking for. Therefore think of that insted of the money.

 [em1]

[em1]
14 Aug 2008 21:28
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you can quitely make yourself understood actually, i got the same feeling as yours, we just graduated from school and stepped into the society, we must, definitely, have to face lots of difficulties, so how to deal with them? firstly, we must work hard, but no mean to be a workaholic, we should have a good rest which benefits greatly our work, we chose the same job as our career, although i couldn't give you an suggestion on it, i just want to tell u that never give up is success! my dear friend, let's work hard and create  a bright future, hope you can have a good weekend!

                                                    if more problems, you can talk with me on QQ.. and i will try to help us to my utmost extent   QQ number:274978974

14 Aug 2008 23:19
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Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:

This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.

My introduction:

Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)

Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)

Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.

i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.

and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.

i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.

what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.

i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.

i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?

it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...

sorry to say that,but still sad.

what should i do?


 


dear bill,

    are you in china now?I can understand your feeling,but I think you must try your best to learn chinese,I think It's very intersting.when you  understand the life and can live,Can discover the life the pleasure,you will be happy! Remember, If you think you can,you can !Best wishes for you!I am a chinese girl.When you are free,we can talk online. MSN:bonnieangel@live.cn

 

                                                                                                                              bonnie

16 Aug 2008 02:24
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