This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
I feel so sad for you. Why are you so sad and where is your girlfriend. Are you away from home and where are you from? Why do you work so hard and very long hours? You need to not give up. It is very hard out there. Very, very hard to sell. What do you sell? Do you work for somebody or for yourself. Where did you go to college? I will be your friend if you need a friend. I am in USA so all I really can do is write to you. A smile a day helps you feel good inside. Cheer up.....
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Send me an email wdperry17@cox.net
Wendy
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:
This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
what should i do? Well get a job at Bloomberg!!!!
Cheer up, things will get better, they always do sooner or later. You are so young, the loneliness comes from not being around your family and friends. Give them a call just to say hello. Being away from home is really hard sometimes but be strong and when you feel down and sad just think of something or somebody that always put a smile on your face. Write letters to loved ones expressing your feelings even if you never get a chance to mail them. Sometimes just writing things in a letter or journel makes life a little easier. Take 10 minutes a day just to think of nothing. When you put your head down on that pillow clear your mind of all thoughts, think of the ocean, a sunny day or just nothing at all. But most of all when you leave work, really leave work. Don't bring your work home with you. Once you stop working don't think about it anymore until you return the next day. Advertise your products so that people know you have them. Try an offer something nobody else offers whether it be free shipping, free products, buy one get one free, offer different, (many), products, what ever it takes. But most of all be very patient or it will drive you crazy. If you don't sell anything today there is always tomorrow. Just because you haven't made a sale doesn't mean the world will end. Life goes on. I have had many online stores that have failed through the years, but I just keep on trying until I get it right. I think I finally got it right and then ebay and Paypal took it all away from me. So now I am starting all over again, but I never get down for more than 5 minutes that's long enough for me, life is too short to be unhappy. It takes time to sell it's a tough business and the economy don't make it any easier. Just stick to your goals and you'll be alright. It will happen just give it more time. Try and learn the language the best that you can. Be nice to people and always keep a smile on your face. People don't want be around other people that are not happy and aremiserable. Even if you are sad don't show it. You will make friends and things will be easier. Try going to a clud or something after work or the local hang out. Always hold your head up high no mater how dificult it maybe. Think positive you will make it. Don't be so down on yourself. Try and socilize with your coworker. Ask one of them if they can help you with the language. Make friends with your neighbors where you live ask them to help you with the language. Just remember you can do it, just put your mind to it, don't let this crapy world beat you down. Heads up and smile, smile, smile!!!!!
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
,To whom it any concern:
My name is connie ,I'm a romantic girl.I work the same with you!
Tomorrow is another day! and not the same.you must smile everyday!
There are a lot of things you should learn on line.If you work tried you can search something you like.
You girl friend leave for happies life,you should happy.She also leave time to you to found your enterprise,seek for your own happiness.She also like you!
Smile everyday!Tomorrow is another day!
thks!
Best wishes
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
Maybe you dont sell anything because the prices in here arent too good. Imagine, I have gotten prices even more expensive thatn what i can get them here in the states, thats not even counting with shipping, we all want to make a buck, so companies should really give import prices, not just regular wholesale
never give up..try to join your colleagues' world..and talk with them,and try to make more friends in a strange place.Regards to your job,no one can help you....Be patient,and work hard...orders will come soon.Don't give up,it is quite normal not to any orders in 3-6 months at the beginning....
thank you ,i will try my best to change an attitude of life.i know it is hard for me ,but i must change myself to adjust this society.thanks all my friends that are giving me courage. i appreciate all your kind regards ,i will work hard and to be a man!thank you again.
God will get you home.
Smile, Laugh a lot. Let the world laugh with you.
God bless you.
Read the Bible, and get energy again. ![]()
Qmany chinese have one style of salesmenship and are too aggresive and not sincere. you need to change your style of sales and understand your customer not just try to get the money or deposit. and you cant just catch customer via email you need to we wiling to talk on the phone and help them to verify you really exist
Quoting from [WDPerry]:thank you so much for your suggestions.i will insist,nothing can beat us down,ok?let's try our best to make a better life ~thank you again,my dear friend!Cheer up, things will get better, they always do sooner or later. You are so young, the loneliness comes from not being around your family and friends. Give them a call just to say hello. Being away from home is really hard sometimes but be strong and when you feel down and sad just think of something or somebody that always put a smile on your face. Write letters to loved ones expressing your feelings even if you never get a chance to mail them. Sometimes just writing things in a letter or journel makes life a little easier. Take 10 minutes a day just to think of nothing. When you put your head down on that pillow clear your mind of all thoughts, think of the ocean, a sunny day or just nothing at all. But most of all when you leave work, really leave work. Don't bring your work home with you. Once you stop working don't think about it anymore until you return the next day. Advertise your products so that people know you have them. Try an offer something nobody else offers whether it be free shipping, free products, buy one get one free, offer different, (many), products, what ever it takes. But most of all be very patient or it will drive you crazy. If you don't sell anything today there is always tomorrow. Just because you haven't made a sale doesn't mean the world will end. Life goes on. I have had many online stores that have failed through the years, but I just keep on trying until I get it right. I think I finally got it right and then ebay and Paypal took it all away from me. So now I am starting all over again, but I never get down for more than 5 minutes that's long enough for me, life is too short to be unhappy. It takes time to sell it's a tough business and the economy don't make it any easier. Just stick to your goals and you'll be alright. It will happen just give it more time. Try and learn the language the best that you can. Be nice to people and always keep a smile on your face. People don't want be around other people that are not happy and aremiserable. Even if you are sad don't show it. You will make friends and things will be easier. Try going to a clud or something after work or the local hang out. Always hold your head up high no mater how dificult it maybe. Think positive you will make it. Don't be so down on yourself. Try and socilize with your coworker. Ask one of them if they can help you with the language. Make friends with your neighbors where you live ask them to help you with the language. Just remember you can do it, just put your mind to it, don't let this crapy world beat you down. Heads up and smile, smile, smile!!!!!
Quoting from [yuanda2008china]:This is the first time i make a topic here,so ,thanks for your care.
My introduction:
Name:bill Chen(just graduated last month,now is working as a sale in zhejiang.)
Age:22.(a little old,sorry..)
Ok,now,i want to put up my question.please listen to me.
i am very tired now, because i sit in front everyday,about 11 hours everyday.my head hurts and everypart of my body is tired.and i have no weekend,i work so hard but still get no order.though i never thought about give up,i am losing confidence day by day.
and another problem is,i am lonely here.i have no friends,just myself .besides,i can't understand their language.so when they are talking happily,i just keep silent aside.so bored everyday,and so sad.
i don't konw how to insist,how to make myself happy. seems so difficult.
what i mostly expect is a good sleep,just want to sleep silently,no disturbs,no works.
i am waiting a day,when i can walk on the road,singing the songs i like,freely on the world.
i still remember the sentence:tomorrow is another day.but ,for me,tomorrow is the same,i have to sit here unhappily,writing the emails to those clients..when is the end?
it's raining outside,also in my heart.i miss my girlfriend too,my god,can you take me back to the days when i was in college?please...
sorry to say that,but still sad.
what should i do?
oh,guy,we are mainly in the same situation.
I very want to escape too, but the fact is this, no way to run!
Working hard, soon or later, We will be happy too.