She is my good friend and roommate in the university, she lives in rural and also has a little brother who is in middie school, so she only gets 250RMB/month from her parents every month.
We both graduated in 2007. I went to the South and she went to Beijing. She said that she is working at a small company as a secretary.
The thing which makes me feel curious is that she told me she can earn more than 10,000RMB/month! My study is much more better than her at school, but I only get 3000RMB/month now, so I feel very much strange! Later, we met online, I found her to become open than the original, and when I mentioned her work, she always evaded, I am worried about her!
What is the problem with her? I really want to help her, so I hope you guys can give me some suggestions!
Quoting from [lelele]:She is my good friend and roommate in the university, she lives in rural and also has a little brother who is in middie school, so she only gets 250RMB/month from her parents every month.
We both graduated in 2007. I went to the South and she went to Beijing. She said that she is working at a small company as a secretary.
The thing which makes me feel curious is that she told me she can earn more than 10,000RMB/month! My study is much more better than her at school, but I only get 3000RMB/month now, so I feel very much strange! Later, we met online, I found her to become open than the original, and when I mentioned her work, she always evaded, I am worried about her!What is the problem with her? I really want to help her, so I hope you guys can give me some suggesti
Respected Miss,
I am running my international trade company in Tianjin too but my secretary is not getting so high salary from me. I have a lot of friends who have companies in Beijing and they are also not paying so high salaries to their secretaries or assistance ...
Anyhow! as I am in Tianjin, 30 mins far from Beijing so i can help you to go to beijing to see your friend and to get her out if she have indulge in something wrong ...
Take good care of yourself and also for those who care for you ..
Regards,
Usman
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Quoting from [snsint]:Respected Miss,
I am running my international trade company in Tianjin too but my secretary is not getting so high salary from me. I have a lot of friends who have companies in Beijing and they are also not paying so high salaries to their secretaries or assistance ...
Anyhow! as I am in Tianjin, 30 mins far from Beijing so i can help you to go to beijing to see your friend and to get her out if she have indulge in something wrong ...
Take good care of yourself and also for those who care for you ..
Quoting from [lelele]:She is my good friend and roommate in the university, she lives in rural and also has a little brother who is in middie school, so she only gets 250RMB/month from her parents every month.
We both graduated in 2007. I went to the South and she went to Beijing. She said that she is working at a small company as a secretary.
The thing which makes me feel curious is that she told me she can earn more than 10,000RMB/month! My study is much more better than her at school, but I only get 3000RMB/month now, so I feel very much strange! Later, we met online, I found her to become open than the original, and when I mentioned her work, she always evaded, I am worried about her!What is the problem with her? I really want to help her, so I hope you guys can give me some suggestions!
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Quoting from [lelele]:She is my good friend and roommate in the university, she lives in rural and also has a little brother who is in middie school, so she only gets 250RMB/month from her parents every month.
We both graduated in 2007. I went to the South and she went to Beijing. She said that she is working at a small company as a secretary.
The thing which makes me feel curious is that she told me she can earn more than 10,000RMB/month! My study is much more better than her at school, but I only get 3000RMB/month now, so I feel very much strange! Later, we met online, I found her to become open than the original, and when I mentioned her work, she always evaded, I am worried about her!What is the problem with her? I really want to help her, so I hope you guys can give me some suggestions!
I think she maybe married her boss! If not.it is impossible to earn so much money. I can bet with you! But if you are her friend, I think you shouldnot show this topic on the board as you has put his secret to public.It is her life,her choice.You can imply something to her.
If she is clever to see that.She would see you an friend.If not,you wil be distasting.So it is difficult to suspect something about her more.Just do something what we want,care less for others.Luxun had said: walk your self road,let others talk.Different man has different chioce if he likes.
I am from the rural.I understand what she think of. If were you,maybe not.But she did.The girls like beautiful is the truth just like most man like more wife.Who didnot want more money in the world? The 60 uper age people? No,she hasnot up to this age.Please forgive her as she need so much money to support her life and heart.
I have no this consciousness to make much money when graduated from university.I just want to live in this world happily. But when I met my girlfriend,all the plans changed in few minutes,because i want to continue with her and she need the money.So i decide earn more money for her asI need happiness(Of course it is not to say that she just like the money ) .The life will change your attitude to the life.Especially when a rural girl went into big city.
Let her go,she will get something she want and lose something did not.
Quoting from [snsint]:Quoting from [lelele]:Respected Miss,
I am running my international trade company in Tianjin too but my secretary is not getting so high salary from me. I have a lot of friends who have companies in Beijing and they are also not paying so high salaries to their secretaries or assistance ...
Anyhow! as I am in Tianjin, 30 mins far from Beijing so i can help you to go to beijing to see your friend and to get her out if she have indulge in something wrong ...
Take good care of yourself and also for those who care for you ..
Regards,
Usman
Hi,Usman.You are a so kind person that you want to help strangers.
Even you say them from your mouth.
And to LELELE, it is not easy to confirm if she is in a good condition.
You cann't help her until she want to tell something about her work and her life.
Quoting from [Dick Moby]:Quoting from [lelele]:
We both graduated in 2007. I went to the South and she went to Beijing. She said that she is working at a small company as a secretary.
The thing which makes me feel curious is that she told me she can earn more than 10,000RMB/month! My study is much more better than her at school, but I only get 3000RMB/month now, so I feel very much strange! Later, we met online, I found her to become open than the original, and when I mentioned her work, she always evaded, I am worried about her!
First, we have to establish your motive, and your emotions towards this ex-classmate of yours. Finally, we got to tell you that the position in class or the performance in the school does not necessary carry forward to the workplace.
To you 10,000 Yuan is a lot of money, which translates to US$1430.00. This is not much for the International standard. She could be working for a foreign company which pays about US$5,000 for a Secretary. The place is different, she is in Beijing, and you are in the South, probably in Guangzhou.
Could it be that you are jealous? Why not congratulate her on her good salary.
Dick
I agree with Dick. 10,000 is not much in this society. So many person can own 10,000 per month. May be your friend is working harder than you. Don't be jealous. I think you can own it too with your hard working.
Regards
jason
Quoting from [lelele]:She is my good friend and roommate in the university, she lives in rural and also has a little brother who is in middie school, so she only gets 250RMB/month from her parents every month.
We both graduated in 2007. I went to the South and she went to Beijing. She said that she is working at a small company as a secretary.
The thing which makes me feel curious is that she told me she can earn more than 10,000RMB/month! My study is much more better than her at school, but I only get 3000RMB/month now, so I feel very much strange! Later, we met online, I found her to become open than the original, and when I mentioned her work, she always evaded, I am worried about her!What is the problem with her? I really want to help her, so I hope you guys can give me some suggestions!
Don't ask too much if she doesn't wanna talk.
But as a friend, you need to support her and when she is sad, you are always his listener.