Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

if time  and age is of marrige you should on time to get marry with sutable and right person,

but if you have same time means you r not reached that age of marriega , you can do job, and earn money as well as you can think about carrier,

but remember marriehe is must and important  work i life which should be done on time

 

regards

sandeep

india

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

life is too short. what you live for? So which one could offer you a high quality life, then you choose it.

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Do not allow your life or your dreams to go messy. Tell your mum that all the rich man that are available  are  dead. Those that are alive are happily married and have families of their own.  All there is left are beggars, vagrants and hoodlums roaming the streets.

Follow your heart, do what you think or feel is right for your own life.

I know how it is with Chinese parents, especially the mother. I faced the same problem 30 years ago, but  in my case my mum wanted me to marry a girl from a well to do family.  I said no and we were at loggerhead for almost a month. I couldn't stand her nagging no more.

Finally, I decided enough is enough. I took a good hard look at myself and then head down under with me Matilda.

In case you want to know I am a Chinese.

Jenny Your mom is right. Find a rich guy who can marry u and u be the queen of the house.

 

 

 

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

I  think  girl should have the dependence ability,we should find a good job,and have the stable income,we can not depend on the male ,who is very  uncertain.

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Hahaha! You're a wise girl to ask and you seem to know the answer to your questions. Analysing your message, I don't think you're a high school girl, you're much, much older than that. You know how to stir emotions from people, especially from women. Because it's such a degrading question and lots of matured women knows how to answer it.

My advice is, you better make some self-analysis if you're qualified to marry a rich man. If you've the looks, it's okey. But if you don't, then it's impossible. Marrying a rich man, is only a stepping stone and so short-term. You better take advantage of the wealth and educate yourself if you're seeking a long-term marriage. If you're dumb and lazy, you'll end up destitute and unfulfilled when your hubby finds a younger and intelligent-type girl.

If you take the option to find a job, even the lowest or menial job, it teaches you values. Again, depending on your wits and talents plus luck, you may find the ladder to success.

Both options will give you 50-50 risk, and it's up to you to find out for yourself.

Thanks for letting us share our thoughts.

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

 

Rengui, U like cheating people, showing them dreams and then breaking it very fast. Keep on telling my friend, my friend its too cheap to see u doing this kind of fraud. U dont have heart but I promised u a day will come soon in ur life where u will be alone and no one will be to talk. Like a check mate,

U enjoying cheating and u will never ever live happy in ur life.

ameet

< get a job sure and make money by seft  and then i can not married  with i do not love

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Dear Mrs/Ms. Emily or what your name is.


    Dear Emily,


I think you should think about  your pride don't rely on someone whose rich. S

A rich man's destiny may change and suddenly be poor.

Don't rely on someone. Even if someday you marry a rich person keep your job going!


Anyway you are a business woman right?

Can you tell me how to make many people buy our products