hi,

Being married to a rich man, i think it is not bad thing! The problem is how you to manage him and let him love you!

Sometimes i also meet and think this question:if i can marry to a rich man, then i can live a  better and casual life!

To get rich, we just insist on our work and continue to work hard , one day we can get rich!

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

are you kidding!  Work hard, be independant and don't rely on anyone for anything.  Your mum is entitled to her old fashioned opinion which is OK if we still lived in the 50's but today a woman can be empowered with knowledge and successful.  Make your own fortune, make your own happiness and drive your own future.

Donn't worry too much . Let's the nature take it 's course !

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

These days a rich man can suddenly lose everything and become a poor man.  There are no guarantees that anything will last forever. 

Also, if you are too dependent on such a person, how do you know that he will treat you fairly?  Perhaps someday he may trade you for a younger, prettier girl.

Also, if you marry someone just because they are rich, are you being honest with yourself, and this other person?  Without honesty, we humans are only animals who learned to make clothing.  Without honesty, you will come to resent this man, and he will come to resent you as well, and then you will hate each other.

It is better that you have a sufficient job to support yourself. 

In the future, when you look for a husband, look for someone who is stable, but not necessarily rich.  Look for a man who is not a child, and who does not have too many bad habits.  Then you will be happy.

Money does not alwasy make you rich.  How many rich people do you see with a smile on their face?

i found this topic by accident while i feel boring right now, so lucky! the topic really attracted me, interesting! 

as a girl, how to get rich? ha! i have also thought about this! and some of the opinions strike me. especially the sentence "These days a rich man can suddenly lose everything and become a poor man.  There are no guarantees that anything will last forever.  " i quite agree with this point. but on the other hand, i doubt that why you choose that rich man? just because he is rich? if not, i think it is no problem that although he becomes poor. that is just what i really want to say: you should listen to your heart, what do you pursue? if only money can make you happy, yes it is ok, you can marry a rich man, even if you get divorce, try to marry another rich man. but does it really make you happy? you should carefully think about this. of course, if the rich man is just the one you love, it will be rather perfect. but not everyone can meet such good luck! in my dictionary, rich means always be happy, be able to get what you want. the question may come to "what i really want?" someone asks for too many, and never satisfy. no matter how many she gets, she won't feel rich. if the one clear about what she really needs, she will makes her great effort to achieve it! then, she will be happy, feel rich. i think everyone should trust himself, because rich or not, happy or not, is  depended on what we think for the most part. you should clear about the result when you get what you want.

to marry a rich man or to get a job? i don't think it is paradoxical. maybe you are just worried about how to get money asap. for me,  i don't think it is a good way to get "rich" by marrying a rich man. doing this will make me think myself useless. i can do many other things, why should i depend on them? we are still young, if we don't try our best to do what we want, i am sure that we will regret for leading a boring life!

in a word, listen to your heart!

I think your mum is right as she loves you and hope you live a happy life. So you can marry with a rich man if you love each other from heart. At the same time, you can continue working ......In that case, your life will be more colorful and independently.

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

You should learn more about the rich man. Including his behavior, character,  idea such as the his view on life, on world and on value. If these are good, maybe marry him is not a bad thing.

As a modern woman, she should not rely on husband. I agree to this opinion. But marry a rich man not means that you lose your work or give up your job. Many women marry rich men, but they still have their job, and create their success.  

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

I have a daughter probably your age but she has not yet finished school yet. She is in Junior College and I could sense that she neither likes to work nor to even contemplate marriage. Foremost in her mind is to see the world!

You are young fresh from school and with lots of energy and enthusiasm. I think you should see the world first because it is by seeing, feeling and listening that we can really start to learn.

Marriage is a contract. Getting a job is a task. Seeing the world is an adventure! And who knows you might end up with your dream guy and your dream job... Or better still find your dream business.

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

As a human being, the most important thing is to be yourself and do what you think is right. Listen to your heart. What would be the point of doing something against your will?!

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

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I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

 

Honey, I am 42 years old, and marrying a rich man is only one way, but I will tell you that I am a successful business woman, and my advise to you, is to start your own business, grow and make your own money, then you will always be able to take care of your self with or with out a man.     Think aoubt your dreams for you, and make sure that you are totally fullfilled with your life and your own passions, the man will come along trust me, i am marrying a Medical Doctor, but i have my own back.   Words of the wise !  Good Luck dear.