I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job??

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

first, i dont agree with both of you two views.  we dont live for work, but work actually is a part of our life. we marry with a man also dont for his money.  but work and a rich man are not conflict. although you married with a rich man , you also can have your own job.  similarly, if you concrate on your job and do well with it , you may marry with a rich man through your own efforts. if you own both work and love ,isn't it better? i think it is possible.

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

as a girl , i want to say , work is more important . if you dont have  a good work , why the rich man will fall love with  you without any reasons .

money is one thing , but it is not anythings .

as a girl , i want to say , work is more important . if you dont have a good work , why the rich man will fall love with you without any reasons .


money is one thing , but it is not anythings .

     Rich person has much money, with those money, i could do what i want, right?


     One of my dream is could have a chance to study in USA. But with out money, i couldn't do that.


Any how, thanks for your idea, good, may be we need to have our own dream.

marriage to a rich european man

Is it really you?..........

I always believe if a girl want to be respected by her husband, she should have an

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Haha, actually, sometimes I feel that I'm too tired of working and working but without freedom, or even been oppressed, then I've asked me, maybe I can marry to someone (who doesn't need to be very rich.) and let him share the load with me? But in the next minute, I'm telling myself, it's not right to depend on others. So, insisit and carry on, girl.

 

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

To get money from a rich man without any independent ability,after married,you  will lose more like freeness,dream,enthusiastism in life,friends and so on. 

 No one man really love a girl from his heart that he has no any space and indepence,he will feel happy in begining for a beautiful girl ,but will be bored soon if face such girl everyday. Also economic ability decides his status in this family,if she is too depent on this man,then this man will try  to control you everything,hope you only wait him to come back everyday at home,do cooking/washing and everything fussy for him,if he ignore you or come back home very late everyday,he will consider you have will no right to punish him and for anything else.

 

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

i just want to marry a guy who can love me more than himself is ok . money  can be suport for daily lift is ok