I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job??

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

thanks street smart,

in reallity, i am trying to read many book as i can. But sometimes i couldn't make my heart smoothly.  In China, after graduating you couldn't find a good job easily.

but any how, i will try best to set my goal and work hard to acheive somewhere that i could arrive.

hey, Upal

I blieve that rich is not a bad thing, but we still need love too.

Dear all,

I have never thought so many people will give your suggestion to me.

Thanks all of your guys.

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

Quoting from [upal]:

Quoting from [emilyshen]:

I am a girl, after gratuated from school, i have a job in a factory as a foreigner trade. Last month, my mum told me that, hurry to marry a rich man then you needn't to be such busy but have low salary.

A little confusing now, as a female, which is more important. To marry a rich man or to get a job?

These days a rich man can suddenly lose everything and become a poor man.  There are no guarantees that anything will last forever. 

Also, if you are too dependent on such a person, how do you know that he will treat you fairly?  Perhaps someday he may trade you for a younger, prettier girl.

Also, if you marry someone just because they are rich, are you being honest with yourself, and this other person?  Without honesty, we humans are only animals who learned to make clothing.  Without honesty, you will come to resent this man, and he will come to resent you as well, and then you will hate each other.

It is better that you have a sufficient job to support yourself. 

In the future, when you look for a husband, look for someone who is stable, but not necessarily rich.  Look for a man who is not a child, and who does not have too many bad habits.  Then you will be happy.

Money does not alwasy make you rich.  How many rich people do you see with a smile on their face?

Quoting from [Katherine Cao]:

People tends to associate marriage with wealth, and I do admit that money is vital for a marriage, but above that, you should be rational and clear about your goal, in another words, What's your motivation or purpose?

For example, we work hard to get money or do business to get more money. And we exercise to get slim, etc. AND HOW ABOUT THE MARRIAGE?

HAPPINESS, of course! In the earth, there're things which can't be purchased by money.

if you have a chance of getting married to a rich man, then forget the job.

How much would you earn in a job, is peanuts compared to what that rich man can give you if he gets addicted to you.