Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

hi,so i think you can have a talk with your friend heart to heart ,tell him or her what you thought sincerely.i think communication is very important for everyone .after ypi know each other well .then you can decide wether you can get along with ,maybe all of us only can give you some advice .but the keyman is you ,you can do what you think , you can give more time to yourself.to think our ,and then do it .in face ,.everything is semple  if you can consider it with a honest heart .good luck !

Try to do something make her happy and show your idea to her that she is important in your life. and show your heart to her, as you two seems to have a long and good relationship before.

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

Well,it needs time.Time will let us forget that ,from your words we know your freind willing to forgive you.so you may grasp the chance to let she believe you .