A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.

She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.

I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.

She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.

Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.

I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

oh my bro, that's terrible and sad to heard that!

I think you had already made a decision by saying "Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse." I think the trust and respect is still there stince she's still willing to forgive you on it, but it's matter of time before both of you could be like in the old days.

Since you the culprit, make the 1st move and ask her out and explain to her on guilty you are over it, and told her you can't bare to lose a good friend like her.  

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

At first,your friend is trusting you all the time,so she told you her HUGE HUGE HUGE secret and can forgive you.She think your friendshipe is so important,you won't make her feel disappointed.Get along with her as before,forget your fault.As a gentleman,you should contact with her first.

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Apologize to her and reduce your drink. Some of you Brits believe you have to get very drunk to convince yourself you 've had a great time out. It is so wrong. She would be thinking next time you get drunk you will do it again. So the problem is the drink. Reduce or stop drinking. Just remember George Best and Gazza

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Quoting from [JJB]:




Apologize to her and reduce your drink. Some of you Brits believe you have to get very drunk to convince yourself you 've had a great time out. It is so wrong. She would be thinking next time you get drunk you will do it again. So the problem is the drink. Reduce or stop drinking. Just remember George Best and Gazza

Yep, you are probably right about the drinking problem.

But leave me favourite Manchester United hero alone.

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK Y

if this things happend for myself . i think i cannot forgive you . because best friend betrayed

me . i will never meet her . because betrayed friendship and trust .

but i hope she can forgive you . and you also can forgive youself .

hope you all things be good !

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

about a week ago, my best friend asked me if i told anyone his secret.  the biggest secret of his life.  he had never told anyone his secret before.  and i told someone.  you shuold consider yourself lucky.  your best friend wants to remain your best friend.  mine forgave me, but thats it.  we considered oursevles extensions of one another.  one could not function without the other.  i ripped his heart out. i lost his trust.  i lost the best thing in my life.  if theres one thing ive learned from this its that forginess is not the hard part. the hard part is the struggle that comes with every moment onward.  i dont know what to do either.  i asked how i could ever earn his trust again and he told me that hes not sure if i could.  i want a second chance.  i need a second chance.  i dont know why i did what i did.  but i know that if there were any chance that he would ever look at me the same way again, i would give my life to have it back.  so...you have to fight for it.  have the courage to not give up and what you believe is right, even when you think it is hopeless.

well it happened ao i guess just do something about it the earlier the better.

answer the ff wuestions and you will see

what do you want???

what do you really want?

what will you do?

now

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

1.communicate with your good friends and tell her what your Heart think.

2.sincerely apology her for your mistake. you shoud know you hurt your friend's heart whether she forgive you.

3. assure her you will never make the same mistake again.

4.help her as your best , play with her and often ask her whether she is ok.

5.forget your mistake but don't make it again.

Quoting from [JJB]:


A couple days ago I betrayed my best friend in the worst possible way.


She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 2 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her brother after I drank a bottle of 10 dollars' wine.


I feel so guilty and awful, like a horrible person, and I've never regretted anything so much.


She says she doesnt want our friendship to end, that she thinks she can forgive me, but I don't think I can forgive myself--even though of course the end of our friendship is the last thing I want. We are on a 'break' right now, with no contact for four days while we hang out with other people and think about the situation. At the end of this I guess we'll see where we stand.


Right now I feel so bad and sick to death worrying about losing her as a friend even though its completely my fault and I deserve worse. But basically I don't know what to do now or how to apologize properly or earn back her trust and respect if that's even possible.


I guess do any of you have any kind of advice whatsoever? If more info is needed just ask! Any and all appreciated! THANK YOU!

everyone feels awful when he is wrong, but he will feel well again after he corrects his fault. i believe you are already better now.