It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery why it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why love grows and a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons, causes, but you will never do more than take the life out of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of the interest and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes at its one time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its many ways.
Sometimes, hopefully, at least once in your life, the gift of love will come to you in full flower, and you will take hold of it, celebrate it in all of its inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on. When this happens to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift that is freely given and a gift that just as freely, moves aways. When they fall out of love, or when the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to claim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers when there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong with them that makes the other person no longer love them, or they try to get their love to change, thinking that if some small things are different, love will bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if they go away and start a new life together, their love will grow.
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways, they live in the sea of misery. You need to treat what it brings to you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. LOVE JUST DOESN'T CHOOSE TO REST IN THE OTHER PERSON'S HEART.
If you find someone else in love with you, and you didn't love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. DO NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OR CAUSE PAIN. How you deal with love is how love deals with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys even if our love and ways are diffirent. If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or assess blame. LET IT GO. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love, LOVE CHOOSES YOU.
All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.
This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts with empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to see love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of love is filled to overwflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead becomes someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has it's own time, its own season, and it's reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives, and give it away when it comes to you. But when it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing we can do and there is nothing we should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad it came to live for a moment. Keep your heart open, IT WILL COME AGAIN.

Quoting from [Street Smart]:


Replying to [Sebrina Lou]:


Just as I suspected, the ugly duckling stealing identity from others.


One such case was the Donald Trump alias, or double, or stunt man. I have a strong feeling that Julieya is a guy, and is a sex predator.


Chinese proverb: If you go up to the mountain too many times, you'll be likely to meet the tiger. Julieya could be your long lost twin

Oh ,my god !what an excellent and crazy and evil imagination.

Tell the truth ,i am a girl who has merciful and minded ,passionate  heart !

as for you ,maybe you are a sex predator .

as for me ,i am young ,i didn't have experience alike you .

what you thought is so ugly and dirty

Quoting from [Strongman Products]:


Replying to [julieya]:


Love is a great feeling, to be in love with another person can change our lifes direction, but for our dreams to come true sometimes we must forget our feelings and think of what we want to be?


To meet you goals in life you would have to make some Sacrificeses and maybe love is one of them.

Now i just understand what you said .

Indeed sometimes one want to achieve his dream ,maybe he will forget his feeling and give up his real love . and accept a no-feeling girl ,because that girl is very rich ,and can help him go abroad .

as a girl ,want to have a good life ,she should forget her feeling and sacrifice some thing to get what she wants .

too simple and too pure ,always hurt ourselves .

for achieving our dream ,we must forget our feelings

Quoting from [DONT SEND]:


Replying to [julieya]:i think LOVE finds you, you cant look for it. LOVE should never be sacificed, true love is strong and over come anything.

I believe god ! and i still believe love .

true love need us to wait for a right one ,or will pain us and hurt us deeply

Quoting from [julieya]:

I believe god ! and i still believe love .

true love need us to wait for a right one ,or will pain us and hurt us deeply

    Lots of people believe there is God, even the Devil himself, but he will shiver in the name that is above every name.


I have joked with a Chinese girl from the Northern Province of China, she was single and wanted to find a good husband. Her expectation was very high, a High School graduate, or a University graduate earning at least US$2000 per month, good looking and very supportive of her and her work.


She has an older sister who is still unmarried, and has not boy friend at that moment. Sister's condition is very simple, all it takes is a male, not withstanding his education or status, or earnings. I replied, that is very easy to find, including the four-legs and a tail.


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