I wanna quit.
I wrote the resignation last night and gave it to the boss minutes ago.
He didn't accept it.
He didn't agree!
But I don't feel like working here any more.

Replying to [Fei Wong]:Do whatever you want. But first secure yourself, I mean if you have another job in hand or you have planned your career the you can move ahead.

All the Best to you.

Replying to [Anshu]:
Thanks.
Actually, I don't have another job in my hand, and what's more, I even don't have any plan.
I'm not good at making plan.
Luckily, I have a best friend who is working in Shanghai now. (I planned to work there next year, too.) She will provide me with a "bed" which will save much money for me.
I'm sure I will be very poor before I find another job.
I have one of the kindest, best friends in the world, I know.

Replying to [Fei Wong]:

Dear Fei Wong, I can understand your situation.

I composed my resignation several days ago.But I didn't submit, now I decide to hand in this afternoon, but my boss is very busy, at the moment he is out for business. I am a little upset. I am afraid that he would refuse my request or he would say sth unpleasant.
I am waiting......

Replying to [Irisyan]:
I was in the same nervous situation before I submit the resignation, just like you.
But we have to do that, and have you seen the advice the friends gave me? I think they are suitable for you, too.
GOOD LUCK for both of us!!!

Replying to Irisyan and Fei Wong

Dr. Bernard, a leading motivator speaker said: "Change is necessary for a better future". When one is doing the same thing as what one was doing last year, and expect to go on to a higher level, there is little possibility to achieve it, unless one change the way and breaks the routine. If you know that you are stuck in the mud, then jump out of it, and grab a lifeline to be successful in life.



I watched a show over television entitled "The Weather Man". It is about a weather reporter in Chicago. David Spritz (Nicholas Cage) was working very hard, stayed in after office hours, ate his meals feeding on fast food, and had no time to spend with his wife and children, pre-teen daughter and a 15 year-old son. Shelly (Germmenne de la Periá) did badly in school, picked up smoking and her classmates were name-calling her 'camel toe'. David's son had trouble with the law on drug abuse, was sexually abused by his rehab counsellor, Don (Gil Bellows). David's wife, Noreen played by Hope Davis, had an affair with his neighbour, Russ (Michael Rispoli).


Dave had a well-paid job, but without the job satisfaction, low self-esteem and in deep depression. Wherever he was, people pelted him with half eaten pizza, hamburgers and called him names, touting him. He tried to live up to his father's reputation as a Pulitzer-Prize winning author, Robert Spritzel played by Michael Cain. Robert was diagnosed with advanced cancer of the soft tissues, and Dave's wife was seeking for a divorce.


He went to the hospital to visit dad, and told him about a job interview in New York the "Hello America" program. The dying dad gave him this advise, to jump out of the mire and go for the opportunity and make a change. In the midst of all his problems, Dave managed enough courage and resolved to take a flight to New York and go for the interview. The interview was another challenge, his major is not in meteorology physics, but in some other discipline, and the studio set was so much advanced than that of Chicago, there is computer graphic superimposed weather map, showing the air pressure and temperature and humidity. The weather man forecasts the weather out of their own analysis, and he predicated hailstones in New York the next day.


After the interview, he went back to Chicago to be in court for the divorce case. The next day, the hail stone came, and he got the job in the America's top television show, with a pay rise of more than 100%. David moved to New York with his son and started a new life there, playing golf, shooting arrows and gain respect from the public as one of the top weather forecaster. The story ends with his success in life.


Read it in:


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Weather_Man

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Replying to [Street Smart]:
Thank you for your wonderful story.
Changes can be chances sometimes.
Actually, I've seen half of this movie but didn't finish seeing it because I thought it's too dult.
Maybe I should see it once again.

Replying to [Fei Wong]:
Hi Fei!
Listen to everyone....do what your heart says...and desires.
You are sure to succeed and prosper.....just listen to your to your heart....using your mind / brain.
Take calculated risks....
It is now... or it will be too late....and perhaps.... never.
Don't ever.....get stuck Up....In Life.
My Best...Wishes---to U

Replying to [adseaco]:
"Take calculated risks... "
I LIKE it.
Thank you, Sunil.

Replying to [Fei Wong]: Dear...Please, don't use...calculators....in such situations...

Replying to [Fei Wong]:Hello Fei, I hope all is still well with you.

I see you stated that you didn´t have another job yet or a plan. How ever you are very lucky to have such a kind friend in the city in which you wish to work. Be sure never to forget this kind gesture. Also follow what is in your heart, only you will know what is best for you.

On a different note, I would like to ask if another job is what you really want? Have you thought about being your own boss? Your English is very good, perhaps you could start your own business. This is just somthing for you to think about. Most of the sucessfull business people I know ( including myself )started out with very little or even nothing at all. If you would like to discuss this more and exchange ideas, then contact me via trade manager. .

Again I would like to wish you good luck and success what ever you choose to do. Keep your head up, keep smiling, and always remain positive.

Best Regards
David