Most people think that for doing business , we need a rule . The rule is : first friend ,then do business .
If you want to do business with other people it is better to be friends with them . But as my experience ,it is so hard . The reasons are as following :
First he knows that you have purpose to chat with him or contact with him , then he will try to avoid you .. There will be the gap between you and him . And finally , he would finish the conversation scilently .
But if you find the right topic and the right time ,then maybe you would get his impression and at last there is a chance of doing business at the following days. But that will a long way .

Quoting from [tiago]:


Most people think that for doing business , we need a rule . The rule is : first friend ,then do business .

If you want to do business with other people it is better to be friends with them . But as my experience ,it is so hard . The reasons are as following :

First he knows that you have purpose to chat with him or contact with him , then he will try to avoid you .. There will be the gap between you and him . And finally , he would finish the conversation scilently .

But if you find the right topic and the right time ,then maybe you would get his impression and at last there is a chance of doing business at the following days. But that will a long way .

  Now a days, individual business community is diminishing: Corporate, public ltd, & etc are growing: so freindship is not a problem for them

Replying to [tiago]: Do business is not only only earn money.the most important thing is your own involved in the process,expressing youself value,acquired to sublimate.Enjoy yourself

Replying to [tiago]:Quite right!!!

Replying to [tiago]:

I HOPE YOU HAVE GOOD KNOWLEDG ABOUT BUSINESS , AS YOU WRITE BE FRIENDS FIRST THEN DO BUSINESS ,

OKAY I WANA BE YOUR FRIEND FOR DOING BUSINESS WITH YOU IF YOU CAN HELP IN SELLING MY PRODUCTS IN YOUR COUNTRY .

Replying to [tiago]:
Yes,I agree with you,it is not easy to get the order of the new customer,
doing business is a more complicate thing,

Replying to [tiago]:

FIRST BUSINESS THAN FRIENDS IS OK.
FRIENDS CAN TAKE YOU FOR RIDE IN BUSINESS AND SOMETIMES THEY JUST CARE FOR THEMSELVES.
IF YOU HAVE BUSINESS IN HANDS THAN THERE IS LOT OF FRIENDS TO GET THRU' ALIBABA.COM OR SIMILAR SOURCES.
JUST FIRST THINK HOW TO GET BUSINESS AND THAN CONTACT YOUR FRIENDS. THOSE DAYS ARE GONE WHEN THE SLOGAN WAS - FRIEND IN NEED IS FRIEND INDEED.
NOW FRIEND KNOWS YOUR ALL WEAKNESS AND WILL BE FIRST TO BETRAY. KEEP SOME DISTANCE AND THINK ABOUT BUSINESS WHICH BRINGS YOU DAILY BREAD.
ANIKET.

I my experience, it is better to avoid the connection between friends and business.  it will be a burden for you.

HIQuoting from [tiago]:


Most people think that for doing business , we need a rule . The rule is : first friend ,then do business .

If you want to do business with other people it is better to be friends with them . But as my experience ,it is so hard . The reasons are as following :

First he knows that you have purpose to chat with him or contact with him , then he will try to avoid you .. There will be the gap between you and him . And finally , he would finish the conversation scilently .

But if you find the right topic and the right time ,then maybe you would get his impression and at last there is a chance of doing business at the following days. But that will a long way .

Hi friend,

We should say business-parnter ,in china,peple may care more for friendship,so friend first,businss second may heip for your business!

I am free member on Alibaba, my business freight forwarding and logistics


I got regular customer from this web, we become a friend via chatting and getting business not to long due to urgency of matter.


Anyway i get many friend from China especially woman partner


May be not only partner in business, but become wifes?......

made more business chance www.sublimation.cn