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angelstar
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How to change myself,You know I'm not good it speaking in public place,maybe due to my character.when i accept the customers,my face always in red,the boss also say this to me.

Maybe I'm lack of confidece,now how should i do ?do more exercise?
22 Aug 2006 02:32
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Replying to [angelstar]: I'm assuming that you are easily embarassed or shy in social situations? Public speaking is not an inherent trait, you're not born with the ability. Confidence and public speaking takes lots of practice. Maybe you should buy a book on the subject. Then practice....practice....practice.[em14]
22 Aug 2006 14:04
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Replying to [angelstar]: Know the product inside out, then practice speaking about it (like Rizzob says [em3] it works!)
22 Aug 2006 16:23
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Replying to [Rizzob]:
thank you for all you reply!I will try!
22 Aug 2006 23:07
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Replying to [angelstar]:No need to do exercise. You should have your self confidance.[em2]
22 Aug 2006 23:59
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Replying to [My Three]:
I have kind of the same problem - when I have to deal with high profile customers in person or to put out proposals together for such. A friend I met here on alibaba told me that those are only humans, too. [em2]

Anyways: Practice is a good thing. Take a deep breath before you go in a meeting, be prepared and KNOW you get the deal in! (Positive thoughts!)
23 Aug 2006 07:12
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Replying to [angelstar]:Think all time that customers they are humans like you.No difference between us as long we born and die in same way.So.........you have no reason to be intimidate.Talk with calm,without to hurry,look directly in to them eyes and let tme see that you are smart,right man in a right place.
Good luck
23 Aug 2006 23:51
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Replying to [angelstar]:
First learn your product details in deep. Then in your room,in front of the mirror, just practice as if you are talking to the customer. As scalde said, take 3 deep breath before you start. Practice this daily for 21 days. You could find the difference.

If you feel that you have other emotional problems also, try to contact some Emotional Freedom Technique Practitioner in your area. Ths EFT technique is a new version of accupuncture without any needles and found highly effective in emotional problems.
24 Aug 2006 12:08
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